Arts and Entertainment
October 12, 2023
From: Lee and Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book FestivalFor over 40 years, the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater & Simon Family JCC’s Lee and Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival has celebrated Jewish authors, illustrators, and books, providing opportunities to engage with bestselling and up-and-coming writers.
Lee and Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival 2023-2024
October 23 - November 29, 2023
Unless otherwise noted, all events take place at the Simon Family Jewish Community Center on the Reba & Sam Sandler Family Campus of the Tidewater Jewish Community. Pre-registration or tickets are required for all events.
Support the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and the Virginia Beach Public Library by either borrowing this year’s books from your nearest local library or by purchasing books online. United Jewish Federation of Tidewater receives 10% of each purchase made through our storefront at BookShop.org/Shop/JewishVA. Of course, you can also purchase books in person at the Simon Family JCC, and book signings will take place following each author event!
2023 SCHEDULE
Diana Fersko - We Need to Talk About Antisemitism
Monday, October 23, 2023, 7:30 PM EDT
FREE & Open to the Community
Simon Family JCC
In conversation with Esther Diskin
A millennial rabbi explores why people are reluctant to discuss antisemitism — and empowers everyone to fight against it.
Antisemitism is on the rise in America, in cities and rural areas, in red states and blue states, and in forms both subtle and terrifyingly overt. Rabbi Diana Fersko is used to having difficult conversations with members of her congregation about the issues they face — from the threat of violence to microaggressions and identity denial. In We Need to Talk About Antisemitism, she gives readers the ultimate guide to modern antisemitism in its many forms.
Exploring topics like vile myths about Jewish people and the intersection of antisemitism with other forms of discrimination, We Need to Talk About Antisemitism gives readers the tools they need to understand the state of antisemitism today. Fersko shows Jews and non-Jews alike how to speak up and come together, spreading a message of solidarity and hope. This is a timely read for anyone passionate about fighting against hate.
Rabbi Diana Fersko is the Senior Rabbi at the Village Temple in Manhattan. She is the national vice president of the Women’s Rabbinic Network and a member of the New York Board of Rabbis. Fersko has been profiled in The New Yorker and has been published in HuffPost. She lives in New York City.
To Life - Jewish Book Festival
Monday, October 30, 2023, 7:30 PM EDT
FREE & Open to the Community
Simon Family JCC
A rich anthology collected by the Holocaust Commission of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, To Life: The Past is Present, tells the stories of Holocaust survivors who made their homes in Hampton Roads. It is anchored by historical notes and archival information to create a well-rounded history of the Holocaust.
This panel discussion will provide insight into the process, importance, and educational value of the book, because without true stories of survival, we cannot properly honor the millions who perished. There is no doubt that the memories of those who were murdered are kept alive by those who tell their stories – and by those who document them.
Did Benny Fefer ever see his twin brother again? What happened to Hanns Loewenbach after his treacherous swim in freezing Baltic waters? How did Devorah Gutterman and her small daughter survive living in plain sight in World War II Poland? To Life: The Past Is Present will answer these questions and more through stories that open a personal window into what it was like to survive the Holocaust.
To Life: The Past Is Present contains recollections of ghetto and concentration camp survivors, hidden children, Jews on the run, refugees, and daring, selfless rescuers. Completing this historical arc are the accounts of military liberators who first witnessed the aftermath of the atrocities. All of these resilient people called Hampton Roads their home at one time in their lives.
The mission of the Holocaust Commission of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater is to foster an understanding of the uniqueness and magnitude of the Holocaust, while inspiring students, teachers, and our community to champion human dignity in our constantly changing world.
Benyamin Cohen - The Einstein Effect
Thursday, November 2, 2023, 12:00 PM EDT
$8 for JCC members and adults 55+ | $12 for non-members
Lunch included with ticket
Simon Family JCC
Almost 70 years after his death, Albert Einstein’s genius continues to define the daily lives of people around the world, and his enduring legacy has shaped him into a modern-day pop culture icon.
Albert Einstein’s face is still one of the most recognizable in the world, and he’s widely considered to be the first modern-day celebrity. While many of his discoveries continue to define the daily lives of people around the world, it’s not just his genius that he is known for. Today, more people know Einstein as an icon rather than a theorist — decades after his death, he’s a celebrity with a massive online following.
The Einstein Effect shows all the ways his influence is still prevalent in culture today. Interspersed between chapters on his long-lasting scientific legacy, author Benyamin Cohen (the mind behind Einstein’s Twitter account!) also tells the story of how Einstein became an unlikely social media figure and pop culture icon in the modern age.
Benyamin Cohen manages the official social media accounts of Albert Einstein. He is the News Director of the Forward and was the founding editor of both Jewsweek and American Jewish Life magazine. He is the co-host of the "That Jewish News Show" podcast. Cohen is also the author of My Jesus Year: A Rabbi’s Son Wanders the Bible Belt in Search of His Own Faith, named one of the best books of the year by Publishers Weekly and for which he received the Georgia Author of the Year award. He is based in Morgantown, West Virginia, where he lives with his wife, three dogs and a flock of chickens known as the Co-Hens
Dean Cycon - Finding Home
Thursday, November 9, 2023, 12:00 PM EST
$8 for JCC members and adults 55+ | $12 for non-members
Lunch included with ticket
Simon Family JCC
Finding Home is an emotionally gripping tale illuminates a little-known piece of the Jewish post-war experience: A search for home, community, and family where they no longer exist.
The war is over, but hatred has not surrendered. Eighteen-year-old Eva Fleiss clung to sanity during nine months in Auschwitz by playing piano on imaginary keyboards. After liberation, Eva and the five remaining Jews of Laszlo, Hungary, journey to their hometown, seeking to restart their lives.
Yet the town that deported them is not ready to embrace their return. Their homes and businesses are legally in the hands of former neighbors and friends, who resist relinquishing their newfound wealth and status. Eva longs to pursue her dream of being a concert pianist; all that remains of her past life. Forced to clean her own home in exchange for practice time on her piano, her profound experiences in Auschwitz allow Eva to access music at a depth she did not know existed. Her performances begin to affect those around her, with unexpected consequences.
Dean Cycon is an author, lawyer, human rights advocate, and internationally renowned social entrepreneur. Cycon is a passionate explorer of culture and history, seeking out unexamined corners that illuminate the human condition. His narrative non-fiction, Javatrekker: Dispatches from the World of Fair Trade Coffee (Chelsea Green, 2008), won an IPPY Gold Medal. Finding Home (Hungary, 1945) is his first novel.
Jacqueline Friedland - The Stockwell Letters
Monday, November 13, 2023, 7:30 PM EST
FREE & Open to the Community
Simon Family JCC
Part of the Konikoff Center for Learning's Unsung SHEroes of History series, moderated by Dr. Amy Milligan
Based on the true story of abolitionist Ann Phillips, Jacqueline Friedland’s novel takes a deep dive into the obstacles faced by abolitionists who fought tirelessly to eradicate slavery.
A passionate advocate of abolition from her earliest years, Ann Phillip’s activism was derailed just before her twenty-fourth birthday when she fell sick with a mysterious illness. In order to protect her fragile health, her husband, the famous abolitionist Wendell Phillips, forbade her from joining any further anti-slavery outings. Even so, when fugitive slave Anthony Burns is apprehended in Boston, Ann is determined to help him, no matter what it costs her.
With a particular focus on the predicament of nineteenth-century women who wanted to effect change despite the restrictions society imposed on them, The Stockwell Letters takes a deep dive into the harrowing conditions of the antebellum South and the obstacles faced by abolitionists who fought tirelessly to eradicate slavery. A fast-paced, arresting recounting of America’s not-so-distant history, the story will stay with readers long after the final page.
Jacqueline Friedland is the author of the award-winning novels Trouble the Water and That’s Not a Thing. A graduate of the University of Pennsylvania and NYU Law School, she practiced as an attorney before deciding to pursue writing full time. Jacqueline lives in Westchester, New York, with her husband, four children, and two very bossy canines.
About the Moderator
Dr. Amy K. Milligan is the Batten Endowed Associate Professor of Jewish Studies and Women's Studies and the director of the Institute of Jewish Studies and Interfaith Understanding. She is an ethnographer who is particularly interested in the folkloric manifestations of selfhood and identity on the body and uses these questions of bodylore to explore lived experiences of gender, sexuality, and religion. She also specializes the study of small or marginalized Jewish communities. Her present research centers on the experiences of small Jewish communities in Alabama, with a special focus on Temple Mishkan Israel in Selma, AL.
Marjorie Ingall - Sorry, Sorry, Sorry
Thursday, November 16, 2023, 7:30 PM EST
FREE & Open to the Community
Simon Family JCC
Everyone has been on the receiving end of bad apologies. Why is it so hard to apologize well? How can society do better at apologizing and accepting those apologies?
Drawing on a deep well of research in psychology, sociology, law, and medicine, Marjorie Ingall and Susan McCarthy, creators of the apology watchdog site SorryWatch, explain why a good apology is hard to find and why it doesn’t have to be. Alongside their six (and a half!)-step formula for apologizing beautifully, Ingall and McCarthy delve into how to respond to a bad apology; why celebrities, corporations, and governments seldom apologize well; how to teach children to apologize; how gender and race affect both apologies and forgiveness; and most of all, why good apologies are essential, powerful, and restorative.
A good apology can do so many things—mend fences, heal wounds, and bring more harmony to individuals and society at large. With wit, deep introspection, and laugh-out-loud humor, Sorry, Sorry, Sorry will help make the world a better place, one apology at a time.
Marjorie Ingall is the author of Mamaleh Knows Best: What Jewish Mothers Do to Raise Creative, Empathetic, Independent Children, and The Field Guide to North American Males. A former columnist for Tablet and the Forward, she is a frequent contributor to The New York Times Book Review and has written for many other outlets.
Rebecca Clarren - The Cost of Free Land
Sunday, November 19, 2023, 2:00 PM EST
FREE & Open to the Community
Chrysler Museum of Art
Award-winning journalist Rebecca Clarren investigates the entangled history of her Jewish ancestors’ land in South Dakota, and the Lakota, who were forced off that land by the United States government.
Rebecca Clarren only knew the major plot points of her immigrant family’s origins. Her great-great-grandparents and their six children fled antisemitism in Russia and arrived in the United States at the turn of the 20th century, ultimately settling on a 160-acre homestead in South Dakota. Over the next few decades, despite tough years on a merciless prairie and multiple setbacks, the Sinykin family became an American immigrant success story. What none of Clarren’s ancestors ever mentioned was that their land, the foundation for much of their wealth, had been cruelly taken from the Lakota by the United States government. America had broken hundreds of treaties with hundreds of Indigenous nations across the continent, and the land that had once been reserved for the seven bands of the Lakota had been diminished, splintered, and handed for free, or practically free, to white settlers.
In The Cost of Free Land, Clarren melds investigative reporting with personal family history to reveal the intertwined stories of her family and the Lakota, and the devastating cycle of loss of Indigenous land, culture, and resources that continues today.
Award-winning journalist Rebecca Clarren has been writing about the American West for more than twenty years. Her magazine pieces, for which she has won the Hillman Prize, appear in High Country News, The Nation, and Indian Country Today. Her debut novel Kickdown was shortlisted for the PEN/?Bellwether Prize for Socially Engaged Fiction. “An American Inheritance,” her work of creative non-fiction, was awarded a Whiting Nonfiction Award. Her work is regularly supported by the Fund for Investigative Journalism. She lives in Portland, Oregon with her husband and two kids.
Corie Adjmi - The Marriage Box
Monday, November 20, 2023, 12:00 PM EST
$8 for JCC members and adults 55+ | $12 for non-members
Lunch included with ticket
Simon Family JCC
In her debut novel, Corie Adjmi opens readers up to the world of a teenage Jewish Syrian girl growing up in the 1970s, looking for love and a place to belong.
Casey Cohen, a Middle Eastern Jew, is a sixteen-year-old in New Orleans in the 1970s when she starts hanging out with the wrong crowd. Then she gets in trouble, and her parents turn her whole world upside down by deciding to return to their roots, the Orthodox Syrian Jewish community in Brooklyn.
In this new and foreign world, families gather weekly for Shabbat dinner; parties are extravagant events at the Museum of Natural History; and the Marriage Box is a real place, a pool deck designated for teenage girls to put themselves on display for potential husbands. Casey is initially shocked by this unfamiliar culture, but after she meets Michael, she's enticed by it. Looking for love and a place to belong, she marries him at eighteen, believing she can adjust to Syrian ways. But she begins to question her decision when she discovers that Michael doesn't want her to go to college; he wants her to have a baby instead.
Can Casey integrate these two opposing worlds, or will she have to leave one behind in order to find her way?
Corie Adjmi is the author of the short story collection Life and Other Shortcomings, which won an International Book Award, an IBPA Benjamin Franklin award, and an American Fiction Award. Her essays and short stories have appeared in dozens of journals and magazines, including HuffPost, North American Review, Indiana Review, Medium, Motherwell, Kveller, and others. The Marriage Box is Corie’s first novel. She is a mother and grandmother and lives and works in New York City.
101 Treasures from the National Library of Israel
Wednesday, November 29, 2023, 7:30 PM EST
FREE & Open to the Community
Simon Family JCC
Moderated by Art Sandler and presented as part of the Jewish Community Relations Council of the
United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, Simon Family JCC, & Community Partners' 13th annual Israel Today Series
The National Library of Israel works to preserve the written word of the worldwide Jewish community throughout the ages. Join Adina Kanefield, NLI USA CEO, and David Makovsky, NLI USA Co-President, for a discussion of this important work and an exploration of some of its most valued treasures, shared in the newly published book 101 Treasures from the National Library of Israel.
Selected by the National Library of Israel’s curators and collections experts, this fine-art volume presents 101 of the most precious items in the Library’s collections, from 5th-century Babylonia to modern-day Tel Aviv, and shares illuminating stories and anecdotes about these significant works and the intriguing people behind them.
Highlights include Maimonides’ autograph copy of his Commentary on the Mishna; the “Damascus Crowns,” including a vitally important 10th century Hebrew Bible codex; theological ruminations of Isaac Newton; love poetry by Sultan Suleiman the Magnificent; manuscripts from leading Jewish and Israeli writers, such as Martin Buber, Stefan Zweig, Franz Kafka, Naomi Shemer, and Shai Agnon; and rare materials documenting Israeli history. High-quality photographs illustrate the stories, and the introduction sets these collections within their cultural and historical context.
Adina Kanefield is responsible for building support for the Library through partnerships, programs, and community outreach. In addition to running a nonprofit consulting practice focusing on strategic growth and resource development, Adina has served in a variety of leadership positions at both board and professional levels, including as the Deputy Director of the Edlavitch DCJCC, the Director of Institutional Advancement at the Milton Gottesman Jewish Day School of the Nation’s Capital, and the Deputy Director of the Center for Israel Studies at American University. Adina graduated from The George Washington University School of Law, where she served on the Law Review.
David Makovsky is the Ziegler distinguished fellow at The Washington Institute and director of the Project on Arab-Israel Relations. He is also an adjunct professor in Middle East studies at Johns Hopkins University’s Paul H. Nitze School of Advanced International Studies (SAIS). In 2013-2014, he worked in the Office of the U.S. Secretary of State, serving as a senior advisor to the Special Envoy for Israeli-Palestinian Negotiations. David is the host of the podcast Decision Points: The U.S.-Israel Relationship, which features interviews with authors, scholars, and practitioners on key moments in the history and present of the U.S.-Israel relationship.
About the Moderator
Art Sandler has a degree in Comparative Cultures and a Masters in Middle East History. He co-leads his family-held business, L.M. Sandler & Sons, Inc., and oversees its broad real estate and financial service holdings. In addition to serving on the NLI USA Board of Directors, Art has served on Brandeis University’s board of trustees, as well as on the boards of the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee (the Joint), the American Israel Public Affairs Committee (AIPAC), the United Jewish Appeal (UJA executive committee), and the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater (UJFT) — where he helped launch the UJFT Holocaust Commission. Art is a founder and board member of PRO ISRAEL AMERICA as well as Project Healthy Minds and served as the vice chair of the Virginia Governor’s Commission to Combat Antisemitism. He also serves on the board of the Sandler Center for the Performing Arts Foundation.
Date: October 23 - November 29, 2023
Location: Simon Family Jewish Community Center
5000 Corporate Woods Dr, Suite 200
Virginia Beach, VA 23462
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